alright. so i have 2 posts brewing in me, & i figured id share about my latest journeys in the 2nd post.

SO... here goes.

so, i blogged awhile back about being too sensitive at times & how im trying to figure & work that all out.

well. now i feel like im stuck in a new spot. now it's me trying to figure out, ok. this thing that the person just said really actually hurt my feelings. but the thing is... i think that was actually hurtful. and i dont think im being too sensitive about it.

well shoot. what do you do about that? it's really difficult! there have been a few things lately & im just trying to sort it all out... i dont want to always want to be the one who has to tell someone that what they said was mean. and i also dont want to be known as the one whose feelings are always hurt. that's annoying. and i dont want to be that person.

(sidenote: im totally not innocent in this. i know that i have my fair turns & fair share of saying not nice things. i totally get that.)

however. i feel like i need a way to calmly say that my feelings are actually hurt. and that im not overreacting. and that it was a legitimate unkind thing to say.

ugh. that's the worst. all of it. it's one of those things that im obviously still trying to sort out. and im not sure if im succeeding or failing. but i think it counts that im at least trying?...

so. there's that. i know that i tend to be a sensitive person. but. i also know that i dont want to always necessarily be the butt of jokes. i just cant handle that all of the time....

thanks for listening. i'll be posting another one right after this.

xo.
LVo